Called & Listening: Hearing the Call

October 7, 2019

of Over the next few weeks, this series, “Called and Listening” will pull from some of my writings on Ignatian discernment wisdom to help you hear God’s calls for your life and answer them. Today, we start with “where are you now” and pausing to hear where there is currently restlessness in your life.  

I don’t know about you, but sometimes, I feel pulled in multiple directions at one time. Loved ones, colleagues, heck, even strangers, have opinions about what God is calling me to do.  When it comes down to it, there is one place I trust more than anything when I am discerning God’s next right step for me.  That place is my inner chapel. 

My inner chapel is the sacred space within me where only God and I can go.  It is a chapel that I can access at any time and any place.   I can say whatever I want to say to God there and only God hears it.  It is a space I can come to and find silence and stillness.  Within me, this inner chapel often holds the voice of God who speaks within the silence of our hearts sometimes through feelings, sometimes through gentle words, and sometimes through a knowing that resonates through our bones.  Guess what?  Each of us has an inner chapel within us where only you and God reside! 

When I’m in a moment of discerning, I know that my best discerned choices happen when I visit this inner chapel often, ask God my questions, and listen for God’s voice and direction within me.  I wish I could say I discern well every time, but like most of us, I miss the boat every now and then.  Much of the last fifteen years of my own faith journey, I have focused on tuning my ear to God’s voice.  This is the same focus of hundreds of conversations with people in spiritual direction also. 

In some sense, much of our spiritual lives are spent learning to still ourselves, learning to listen and learning to discern what God is calling us to in the here and now. 

It starts here:   

People ask me all the time, “How do I know if I’m hearing God’s voice or not?”  While I don’t have the answer to this million-dollar question, I can tell you this: one way to recognize God’s voice is to spend time in your inner chapel.  If you are looking for a prayer method to bring to this inner chapel, I suggest praying with Scripture. Scripture is truly the word of God and voice of God. If we want to tune our ear to God’s voice, why not start with what we know to be the word of God? 

Think about it this way. In a room of children, I distinctly know when one of my own children is calling out, “Mom!” or when it’s another child. Why? Because I’ve spent hours and hours and hours listening to my children’s voices. My ear is finely attuned to what their voices sound like. I can also typically discern which of my children is calling me. I do not think about this anymore; it’s just something that naturally happens in motherhood—training our ear to our children’s voices. 

In the same way, as we continue to meditate on God’s word, we become more and more attuned to what God’s voice sounds like to us, how God speaks to us, and what ways God uses to illuminate our path. 

Two simple Actions This Week: 

Go Deeper?  

Iniviting You Deeper as We Walk with Christ:

  • Starting October 17Exploring Ignatius: Ignatian Spirituality for the Busy Person Course at Immaculate Conception in Denham Springs (October 17, 24; November 7, 14) More info here. Register here.
  • Starting October 22: 6 week study of my book, Busy Lives and Restless Souls, with the Archdiocesean Spirituality Center, Archdicoese of New Orleans (Tuesday, Oct. 22, 29, Nov 5, 12, 19, 26) at 10:00 – 11:30 am or 7:00 – 8:30 pm, St. Peter’s Lacour Center, Reserve. More info here.
  • October 23Women of the Well Fall Day of Reflection: “Is It You, God?” Cultivating Space to Hear God’s Voice in the Busyness, 9:30am-2:30pm at St. Gabriel Catholic Church, St. Gabriel, LA. Register here.
  • November 11: Holy Rosary Women’s Night, Making Room in the Busyness, St. Amant, LA. More info here.
  • Sign up for my Prayer Team and pledge to pray for the weekly prayer requests posted on my Facebook & Instagram, and for the attendees of upcoming events. Email

Becky is an Ignatian-trained spiritual director, retreat facilitator, and writer. She is the author of the Busy Lives and Restless Souls (March 2017, Loyola Press) and The Inner Chapel (April 2020, Loyola Press). She helps others create space to connect faith and everyday life through facilitating retreats and days of reflection, through writing, and through spiritual direction. With nearly twenty years of ministry experience within the Catholic Church, Becky seeks to help others discover God at work in the every day moments of people’s lives by utilizing St. Ignatius’ Spiritual Exercises and the many gifts that our Catholic faith and Ignatian Spirituality provide.

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